Working and living in St. Louis and Charlottesville

Dwight wants to know the story behind why I live and work in two places.

There are several possible answers to this query:
1. It’s a whole Lewis and Clark fascination. Lewis, born in Charlottesville. StLMom, living in C’ville. Lewis and Clark, leaving on their expedition from St. Charles, Mo. (just outside of St. Louis). StLMom, living in St. Charles for 17 years before leaving on expedition to C’ville. Hmmm. OK, not really.
2. Uprooted, after living and working 17 years in the St. Louis area, I couldn’t bear to make a clean break. So I kept my job in St. Louis, telecommute Mon-Fri and travel back often where I live and work in the same place for a few days at a time.
3. Almost a year ago, my husband’s project was ending, meaning layoffs for team members. Instead of letting him go, the company set him up with several interviews. The winner? A spot in Charlottesville, a place we’d never even visited. We came. We saw. I interviewed random people on the downtown mall. We decided. Let me compress two months for you: worry, indescision, insomnia, talking, excitement, fear, nervousness. The most nerve-wracking moment came when I had to share with my firm the news that we would, in all likelihood, be moving away. They decided they’d rather keep me. I decided I’d rather stay. We worked it out and, seven months later, I can tell you, it’s still working, even long distance.

3 Responses to “Working and living in St. Louis and Charlottesville”

  1. Dwight The Troubled Teen Says:

    How awesome that it all worked out. We live in interesting times when modem cowboys like yourself can be accomodated by loyal employers.

    Just too cool.

  2. dave donohue Says:

    Cheers to all telecommuting-friendly PR agencies :)

  3. STLWorkingMom » Blog Archive » Charlottesville: A Year in Review Says:

    […] Mark and I have made a few friends, and grow to love Charlottesville more all the time. It’s difficult to be so far apart from family and friends, but for the most part, we’ve managed to stay in touch and look forward to visits either here, or there. Mark is planning a fishing trip with some scattered friends, with a visit back in Missouri this spring. I continue to travel back to St. Louis for work, anticipating about nine trips in 2007. Our jobs continue to be rewarding and working at home, for me is something I’ve found I enjoy. Unless, of course I’m people starved, and then I get up and get out. Mark continues to enjoy a short commute. We do not take for granted the joy of living and working in the same zip code; a first for both of us. […]

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