I read Anna Quindlen’s back page column in Newsweek the other night and, upon finishing it, burst into tears.
I think there’s a chance I’m suffering from pre-separation anxiety.
I have to know, you moms and dads of older kids, how on earth have you coped with kids leaving home? I know, I know — he’ll be back for holidays and such, but I’m just going to miss him so very much.







I haven’t lived with my parents since 1996. My mom still tries talking me into staying the night. And if I won’t, she wants to keep my dog overnight (so I have to come back the next day).
I went to college with Anna’s daughter who’s still there (along with that darn dean she mentions in the article); I wish Anna would’ve done a writing workshop or a reading while I was there.
Ugh. My little guy is only 17 months (in three days), and I’m already dreading the day. How are tears possible 17 years in advance?
Take it from someone who has been through the college separation anxiety: It’s not easy, but it does get better. Think of it this way: When he does see you at college or a visit home, he’ll be happy to see you — at least you have plenty good times left with “the girl.”